First of all; i get you, honestly. Since I came out as trans, I've never had a "huge" friend group, and especially not of cis people. I don't think this is a 'trans vs cis' issue, it's a 'neurodivergent vs neurotypical' issue. I know it isn't the same thing, but Discord is a nice way to socialize with other like-minded people. It's the reason why I made mine, and a lot of people there found people they liked and now are friends with. I empathize deeply with you, and it's really unfair. I'm sorry. I hope it can get better.